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If Someone is Suicidal: 3 Steps Parents Can Take
Get your child help (medical or mental health professional) Support your
child (listen, avoid undue criticism, remain connected) Become informed
(library, local support group, Internet)
Three steps teens can take
Take your friend's actions seriously Encourage your friend to seek
professional help, accompany if necessary Talk to an adult you trust. Don't be
alone in helping your friend.
Intervention:
Intervention can take many forms and should throughout the different stages
in the process. Prevention includes education efforts to alert students and the
community to the problem of teen suicidal behavior.
Intervention with a suicidal student is aimed at protecting and helping the
student who is currently in distress.
Postvention occurs after there has been a suicide in the school community. It
attempts to help those affected by the recent suicide. In all cases it is a good
idea to have a clear plan in place in advance. It should involve staff members
and administration.
There should be clear protocols and clear lines of communication. Careful
planning can make interventions more organized, and effective.
Prevention often involves education. This may be done in a health class, by
the school nurse, school psychologist, guidance counselor or outside speakers.
Education should address the factors that make individuals more vulnerable to
suicidal thoughts. These would include depression, family stress, loss, and drug
abuse. Other interventions may also be helpful.
Anything that decreases drug and alcohol abuse would be useful. A study by
Rich et al found that 67% of completed youth suicides involved mixed substance
abuse.
PTA meetings family spaghetti dinners can draw in parents so that they can be
educated about depression and suicidal behavior. "Turn off the TV Week"
campaigns can increase family communication if the family continues with the
reduced TV viewing.
Parents should be educated about the risk of unsecured firearms in the home.
Peer mediation and peer counseling programs can make help more accessible.
However, it is critical that students go to an adult if serious behaviors or
suicidal issues emerge. Outside mental health professionals can discuss their
programs so that students can see that these individuals are approachable.
Intervention with a suicidal student:
Many schools have a written protocol for dealing with a student who shows
signs of suicidal or other dangerous behavior. Some schools have automatic
expulsion policies for students who engage in illegal or violent behavior.
It is important to remember that teens who are violent or abuse drugs may be
at increased risk for suicide. If someone is expelled, the school should attempt
to help the parents arrange immediate, and possibly intensive psychiatric and
behavioral intervention.
Calm the immediate crisis situation. Do not leave the suicidal student alone
even for a minute. Ask whether he or she is in possession of any potentially
dangerous objects or medications.
If the student has dangerous items on his person, be calm and try to verbally
persuade the student to give them to you. Do not engage in a physical struggle
to get the items. Call administration or the designated crisis team. Escort the
student away from other students to a safe place where the crisis team members
can talk to him. Be sure that there is access to a telephone.
The crisis individuals then interview the student and determine the potential
risk for suicide.
If the student is holding on to dangerous items, it is the highest risk
situation. Staff should call an ambulance and police and the student's parents.
Staff should try to calm the student and ask for the dangerous items.
If the student has no dangerous objects, but appears to be an immediate
suicide risk, it would be considered a high-risk situation. If the student is
upset because of physical or sexual abuse, staff should notify the appropriate
school personnel and contact Child Protective Services.
If there is no evidence of abuse or neglect, staff should contact parents and
ask them to come in to pick up their child. Staff should inform them fully about
the situation and strongly encourage them to take their child to a mental health
professional for an evaluation.
The team should give the parents a list of telephone numbers of crisis
clinics. If the school is unable to contact parents, and if Protective Services
or the police cannot intervene, designated staff should take the student to a
nearby emergency room.
If the student has had suicidal thoughts but does not seem likely to hurt
himself in the near future, the risk is more moderate. If abuse or neglect is
involved, staff should proceed as in the high-risk process. If there is no
evidence of abuse, the parents should still be called to come in.
They should be encouraged to take their child for an immediate evaluation.
Follow-Up: It is important to document all actions taken. The crisis team may
meet after the incident to go over the situation. Friends of the student should
be given some limited information about what has transpired.
Designated staff should follow up with the student and parents to determine
whether the student is receiving appropriate mental health services. Show the
student that there is ongoing care and concern in the school.
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